The good, the bad, and the FAT

I am gullible when it comes to things I don't have good knowledge on. I trust peoples words more then I probably should sometimes.

Chicago Sane is looking out by telling me that I need to be careful with false positives and I should get a second opinion in a few but killed my buzz lol- now I'm nervous all over again! Although McDreamy did say they would have to do another paps mere in a few months...
ChicagoSane, are you a blogging gyno?

Fitness does not like butterflies... They creep him out.

I do not like insects. I am fearful of them, and by fearful I mean the following things start to happen:

• Light headedness
• Rapid heart beat
• Inability to think properly- I just think RUN
• Sometimes gagging

This past weekend Fitness and I went to the zoo. I went to the zoo in Ireland but this was the first time I had gone to this specific zoo in about 3 years. When we get there I see they have a BUTTERFLY EXHIBIT. I heard the last time Fitness went to one of these things he almost punched a butterfly. Yeah, grown ass man fighting a butterfly. Ali said FLY like a butterfly, not fight the butterfly.

Out come my devil horns. I make him go into the butterfly exhibit, I want a good laugh.If you want a prime example of a plan backfiring here it is:

We walked into this tent and literally HUNDREDS of butterflies are roaming free. FIVE are in my face and instead of Fitness freaking out I turn whiter then I am, I got lightheaded and stuck my face in between Fitness arm and side.

I asked if I could walk out the entrance (with my face still dug in him) and they tell us no, we have to walk to the back and go through the exit...

MY PLAN COMPLETELY BACKFIRED. Instead of watching him freak out I was the one who freaked out. In fact, he told me that watching me that way helped calm him down and although he still doesn't like butterflies he thinks this experience has cured his fear. I'm glad I am able to help someone out there ::enter sarcastic smile here::

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Now that we are on the topic... I think a lot of my attraction to Fitness is physical. Actually, scratch that, I know it is physical. If he was fat I wouldn't have liked him to begin with. I don't feel that bad about this though because he told me he can't picture being with a big girl.

I questioned him on this- I think its a little unfair being that sometimes girls have to bear children and loose their shape, get saggy skin or boobs you know... And he said that he wouldn't leave his wife or woman he loves for it unless she got obese and didn't want to do anything about it but at this stage in his life physical attraction is very important.

Opinions anyone? What's your take on dating big people?