All Men Cheat?

SOMEBODY PLEASE TELL ME I AM NOT CRAZY!

Fitness (surprise surprise, another blog about Fitness lol) and I were talking on the phone about his work. He is telling me about this situation at work and here are they key points that lead to my discomfort:

• He met his manager at work for the first time who is an older female. Doesn't bother me.
• She seems a little friendlier with him then with the rest of the trainers. Still doesn't bother me.
• He thinks she has a crush on him. Nope, doesn't bother me...
• She jokes with him in a flirtatious way. Doesn't bother me.
• He jokes back with her. WHOA WHOA WHOA.
  

OK OK... I think of myself to be a pretty understanding person now that I am older (because I definitely wasn't when I was younger). I don't care if someone flirts with my boyfriend, I nor he cannot control the actions of another person, so why get upset at him?

WHEN YOU "JOKE" BACK ITS A PROBLEM.

I mean fine, I do believe in innocent flirting if you guys are not attracted to each other but if you know the old hag is crushing then why do it?

I spoke to him about this and everything is fine now. The woman is not a threat anyway, and I don't think, at this point atleast, that he would be doing something like that. It is very out of character for him. This happened a few weeks ago but I figured it was worth mentioning on a blog.

On another note... We were having wine night (the girls get together at a friends house, drink and talk shit till 5 in the morning) and obviously we were talking about men.

In attendance were:

1. Sassy Daisy (one of my GIRLS)
2. Big Bootay (a friend I met through Sassy)
3. NOT Eye Candy (a girl I met through Big Bootay, she is not that pretty but worth hanging out with because she is FUNNNNNAAAYYY)
4. Myself (IMWIR)

NOT Eye Candy is being very adamant about the following statement: ALL MEN CHEAT.

I disagree with this statement and her response to me is...

NOT Eye Candy: You are naive and this is why you will get cheated on.

IMWIR: What does it matter if all men cheat anyway?

Personally, she must be bitter about something but I wasn't going to take it there. I just let it go. She says it doesn't have to be physical, it can be by just looking. Jesus, doesn't everyone look? Fuck, I look at girls too if they are really hot, does that mean I am a lesbian and a cheater?