SOMEBODY PLEASE TELL ME I AM NOT CRAZY!
Fitness (surprise surprise, another blog about Fitness lol) and I were talking on the phone about his work. He is telling me about this situation at work and here are they key points that lead to my discomfort:
- He met his manager at work for the first time who is an older female. Doesn't bother me.
- She seems a little friendlier with him then with the rest of the trainers. Still doesn't bother me.
- He thinks she has a crush on him. Nope, doesn't bother me...
- She jokes with him in a flirtatious way. Doesn't bother me.
- He jokes back with her. WHOA WHOA WHOA.
WHEN YOU "JOKE" BACK ITS A PROBLEM.
I mean fine, I do believe in innocent flirting if you guys are not attracted to each other but if you know the old hag is crushing then why do it?
I spoke to him about this and everything is fine now. The woman is not a threat anyway, and I don't think, at this point atleast, that he would be doing something like that. It is very out of character for him. This happened a few weeks ago but I figured it was worth mentioning on a blog.
On another note... We were having wine night (the girls get together at a friends house, drink and talk shit till 5 in the morning) and obviously we were talking about men.
In attendance were:
- Sassy Daisy (one of my GIRLS)
- Big Bootay (a friend I met through Sassy)
- NOT Eye Candy (a girl I met through Big Bootay, she is not that pretty but worth hanging out with because she is FUNNNNNAAAYYY)
- Myself (IMWIR)
I disagree with this statement and her response to me is...
NOT Eye Candy: You are naive and this is why you will get cheated on.
IMWIR: What does it matter if all men cheat anyway?
Personally, she must be bitter about something but I wasn't going to take it there. I just let it go. She says it doesn't have to be physical, it can be by just looking. Jesus, doesn't everyone look? Fuck, I look at girls too if they are really hot, does that mean I am a lesbian and a cheater?
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4 comments:
ahhhh... this is a touchy subject for me....... I really dislike the idea of cheating!!!!! But after being so naive the first time around I WOULDN'T PUT IT PAST ANYONE!!!! I think I've been tainted.... that shyt sux...... blah....
I was talking to someone recently and they thought it was crazy that I was faithful to my bf for the entire time we were together.... is the idea of fidelity that far fetched???????
-Pang
I never cheated on notheone so pang it's not far fetched.
Not eye candy gets cheated on cause she's not cute not because all men cheat.
Yea, they do!! May be u should hit up mach about this... sure he can give you great insight on how sooooo true this is and why they do it...!
Pang- yea, it totally seems that the idea of fidelity is extremely far fetched these days. People are selfish and disrespectful... sadly!
Bow Chica Wha Wha- being cute or not has nothing to do with it, in my opinion! I'm pretty good looking (many have said so), but he still did it. Over and over again!!! Why???? Donno... guess cuz he's a guy... :(
Oddly enough, MOST men do cheat in their lifestyles, but far more men than women get caught doing it.
From my minor surveys, the percentage of people who cheat is about the same, and it is a VERY high percentage, but women almost always say they've never been caught or even suspected of cheating.
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